Teach Us To Pray
(Part 5)
Jesus was walking into Jerusalem one day
and he was hungry. He wanted to grab some figs from a fig
tree, but there was no fruit on the tree. Jesus said of
the tree, “May no fruit ever come from you again”,
and the tree withered! Some people are bothered that Jesus
would curse a fig tree just because it didn’t produce
any figs to satisfy his hunger. There’s a deeper meaning
- in the Bible the fig tree was sometimes a symbol for Israel.
Jesus was visibly demonstrating Israel’s spiritual
barrenness. Israel failed to repent and rejected Jesus as
her Messiah. Aside from that, the disciples looked at the
withered tree and said, “How did that happen?”
Jesus’ response is found in Matthew 21:21-22: “Truly
I tell you, if you have faith and do not doubt, not only
will you do what has been done to the fig tree, but even
if you say to this mountain, ‘Be lifted up and thrown
into the sea’, it will be done. Whatever you ask for
in prayer with faith, you will receive.” Jesus talks
about the importance of faith when we pray.
How important is faith to a meaningful
prayer life? It is very important! In the Gospel of Mark
the story of Jesus’ curse on the barren fig tree includes
these words of Jesus, “So I tell you, whatever you
ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and
it will be yours” (Mark 11:24). James 1:5-8 urges
us to ask for wisdom, but to ask with faith. It says, “If
any of you is lacking in wisdom, ask God, who gives to all
generously and ungrudgingly, and it will be given you. But
ask in faith, never doubting, for the one who doubts is
like a wave of the sea, driven and tossed by the wind; for
the doubter, being double-minded and unstable in every way,
must not expect to receive anything from the Lord.”
Notice, the doubter should not expect to receive anything!
To pray with faith, first of all, means
that we believe God hears us and wants to give us good things.
Hebrews 11:6 says, “Without faith it is impossible
to please him (God). For whoever would draw near to God
must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who
seek him.” If we draw close to God we have to have
faith that God exists and that he wants to give us good
things. If our praying is to be effective, we have to approach
God with a certain amount of trust in God’s goodness,
power and love.
Praying with faith also means we really
believe God can bring about what we are asking for. Have
you ever prayed for something, and if it actually happened,
you would probably be the most surprised person on earth?
Or, maybe you have gotten an answer to prayer and you were
so amazed you could hardly believe it. And yet that is exactly
what you were praying for!
Let me say some things about “faith-sized
requests”. I learned about this idea many years ago
in a book called Prayer, Conversing With God, by Rosalind
Rinker. She says that we know intellectually that God can
do anything, but we often find it hard to believe that God
will actually do what we’re asking for. So we have
to edit our prayers to ask for only those things that we
believe God will do. It’s not a matter, then, of trying
to ask for the biggest thing we can think of and then trying
to convince ourselves that God can do it. Rather, we ask
for what we can believe God will do. It’s like trying
to get to the top of a ladder taking one huge step. We can’t
do that, so we must take small steps. As we see God answering
these “faith-sized requests”, that builds up
our faith so we can ask for greater things.
Let me give a few examples of faith-sized
requests. A girl prayed for her boy friend’s conversion
to Christ. But she really didn’t believe God could
make him a Christian right away. So she prayed first that
on their next date she would have an opportunity to share
her faith with him. She believed God could make that happen,
and it did. Next she prayed that her boy friend would be
willing to accept a New Testament that she wanted to give
him. He accepted it. Then she prayed a believing prayer
that God would make her boy friend willing to read it. And
he was. She continued with these faith-size requests, and
to summarize what happened - within two weeks of her first
prayer, her boy friend became a Christian.
A Christian family moved into a new neighborhood.
One of the first things the new couple, Jack and Mary, did
was to pray that they could get acquainted with their neighbors
next door, and if these neighbors were not Christians, that
they would open their hearts to the Lord. But Jack felt
he needed to pray smaller, faith-sized requests. First Jack
prayed, “Lord, I’d like to meet the man living
next door in some casual way and get acquainted with him.
I’d like to begin today and I believe you can arrange
it. Thank you Lord.” His wife Mary agreed on that
prayer. Jack prayed that prayer in the morning and by afternoon
God answered. However, God must have a sense of humor because
of the way in which it came about. Their children got into
a fight with the neighbor’s children over a tricycle.
Both fathers came rushing out. Immediately, Jack took responsibility
for his children’s part in it, put out his hand and
said, “I’m Jack. We just moved in next door,
glad to meet you!”
Jack’s second prayer was, “Lord,
I’d like to know what this man is interested in so
we could become friends.” The answer came in two days.
The neighbor was interested in football. Jack’s next
faith-sized prayer was, “Lord, I need two complimentary
football tickets, and could I have them by the weekend,
please!” The tickets came, and his friendship with
his neighbor grew.
The next step was to pray that the man
would accept Jack’s invitation to come to a Bible
study that he taught. The neighbor accepted. On the way
to the study they talked about football. On the way back
they talked about Christ! Jack continued to follow these
small steps of praying believable prayers, and was able
to lead this man and his wife to Christ.
How much more exciting our praying can
be if we pray specific prayers for the little things we
believe God will give, rather than focusing on big things
which we doubt God would ever do.
Another way to allow faith to grow in our
praying is to visualize what we are praying for. In this
way we form an image in our mind of what the answer to prayer
might look like. Cecil Osborne in one of his books tells
of preaching one Sunday on prayer and saying that if what
we desire is in harmony with the basic will of God, in keeping
with Jesus’ teachings, will harm no one else and can
add to our own well being or another’s well being,
and if we want the will of God for our life, we can receive
what we want if we can visualize it. To visualize something
means we can see it on the screen of our mind as an accomplished
fact.
Many in the congregation accepted the idea
presented in the sermon on an intellectual basis, but at
least one person in the church felt its truth at a deeper
level. After the worship service a college student came
up and said to Dr. Osborne, “You’re going to
the Holy Land this summer, aren’t you?” Osborne
said, “Yes, in July.” The student said, “Mind
if I go along?” Dr. Osborne said, “Not at all.
I’d be delighted!” But then he said, “Wait
a minute. Where are you going to get the money for the trip?”
“I don’t know,” the young
man responded, “but while you were talking about visualizing
in prayer, I suddenly visualized myself in the Holy Land.
I could see myself walking through the Damascus Gate into
the old city of Jerusalem. I think I meet all the tests
you laid down, and I do want the will of God for my life.”
A few weeks later they met again. Osborne said, “Jerry,
how are you coming with your plans for the Holy Land trip?”
“Fine, I’m still going” Jerry answered.
“Have you found a way to get the money?” “No,”
Jerry responded, but I can still see myself walking through
the Damascus Gate.”
Time went on. Still no money. The deadline
for reservations was getting close, and to make a long story
short, the young student got the money. He made contact
with a lady who just “felt” she should give
him the money. In fact, she wrote out a check on the spot!
Sure enough, Jerry did walk through the Damascus Gate, just
as he had pictured.
Now I’m not saying that we can ask
for any stupid, foolish, selfish thing and be assured of
getting it just because we picture it in our mind. I have
said all along in this series on prayer that we must want
God’s will to be done. But, our prayer life can be
so much more thrilling if we can pray for thins we really
believe God will give us, and even visualize the answer
before it ever comes! Jesus said, “Whatever you ask
for in prayer with faith, you will receive” (Matthew
21:22).
Let me say something about the Holy Spirit
and His work in our prayer life. Ephesians 6:18 says, “Pray
in the Spirit at all times in every prayer and supplication.
Jude 20 says, “build yourselves up on your most holy
faith; pray in the Spirit.” What does it mean to pray
in the Spirit? I don’t have all the answers to that
question, but I think Romans 8:26-27 gives us some clues.
It says, “Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weakness;
for we do not know how to pray as we ought, but that very
Spirit intercedes with sighs too deep for words. And God,
who searches the heart, knows what is the mind of the spirit,
because the Spirit intercedes for the saints according to
the will of God.”
Romans 8:26 says that the Holy Spirit helps
us in our weakness. We are weak when it comes to prayer
sometimes, aren’t we? I know I am. Isn’t it
great that God has given us the gift of the Holy Spirit
to help us in our weakness.
Note also that Romans 8:26 says “For
we do not know how to pray as we ought”. Often, we
don’t know what to pray for, do we? We might be praying
for ourselves or someone else, and we’re not sure:
What is God’s will in this matter? For what should
I pray? Or we may wonder whether what we’re praying
for is something we can pray in Jesus’ name. Is it
something Jesus would approve of? Well, we can ask the Holy
Spirit to guide us in our praying. Be still and allow the
Spirit to give us that inward sense of what to pray. Or,
we may wonder how long we should continue praying for something
or someone. Should we change our prayer? Should we continue
asking? Or should we stop asking for a particular thing,
either because we sense it is not God’s will, or else
we are given the assurance that God will grant our request
and we don’t have to ask any more! The Holy Spirit
can guide us here too! Ask for his guidance, and then be
quiet and wait to see how the Spirit leads.
As we go to prayer, in addition to having
a prayer list, we might ask the Spirit if there is anyone
specifically we should pray for. Then wait, and perhaps
a name or a situation will come to mind. Sometimes the Spirit
of God can interrupt what we’re doing and move us
to pray for a certain person or thing. I heard once about
someone who, as I recall, was awakened out of sleep one
night and felt this strong urge to pray for a certain person.
He did pray for that individual, and it was only some time
later that he found out that at the exact moment he was
given the urge to pray, the person he prayed for was in
serious danger. Everything came out okay. Perhaps it was
that prayer, motivated by the Holy Spirit, that helped save
this person.
A number of years ago a cousin of mine
got sick. He was just a baby then, and I remember talking
to his mother as she held him, and listening to her worried
tone of voice. She had Steve to the doctor and nothing seemed
to help. As we talked, I felt a sudden urge to reach out
and touch him and pray a silent prayer for his healing,
which I did. Several days later I talked to my aunt and
said, “By the way, how is Stevie?” She told
me that he was doing fine, and that he just got better within
the last few days. The Holy Spirit helps us because often
we don’t know what to pray for or how to pray.
Romans 8:26-27 also says that the Spirit
intercedes for the saints (believers) with sighs too deep
for words. Have you ever come to prayer and found your emotions
and feelings so strong (whether it was anger, or confusion,
or sadness, or whatever) that you just could not find words
to express what you felt? The Holy Spirit can help us here.
I know there have been times when I have tried to pray and
felt so inadequate to express what’s deep inside at
that moment. In those times I have often asked the Holy
Spirit to make intercession for me. Isn’t it good
to know that when we’ve reached our limit and cannot
put into words what we feel, God’s Spirit is there
to bring our need to God with sighs too deep for words!
So far in this sermon I have talked about
the importance of faith in our praying, and also how the
Holy Spirit helps us in our praying. Let me make just a
few brief comments about praying together, praying with
others. Most of what I’ve said in this series of sermons
has focused on our individual praying - praying alone. But
one of the most valuable of tools we have for praying is
to pray with others. Both the Old Testament and the New
Testament show that God’s people have prayed together.
Prayers of the faith community have been an integral part
of the life of Israel (Old Testament) and the Church (New
Testament).
One of the richest experiences of my life
over the years has been to pray with other Christians! There
have been times when I have felt discouraged and praying
with others has given me a lift and hope. There are times
when I might not have had a lot of faith to pray for something,
but hearing others pray with faith for that very thing increases
my ability to pray in faith for that. There have been times
when I wasn’t sure what to pray for or how to pray
for a particular thing, and praying with others has made
it much clearer to me.
Besides all this, there is power when God’s
people pray together! Matthew 18:19-20 gives us a prayer
promise of Jesus for those who pray together. It says, “Truly
I tell you, if two of you agree on earth about anything
they ask, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven.
For where two or three are gathered in my name, I am there
among them.” Who of us can imagine the unlimited power
available to us if we gather to pray and claim this promise
of Jesus! We have two Intercessory Prayer groups in the
church right now and this is one method of allowing believers
to gather in prayer.
This is the last in this series of five
sermons on prayer. This has been very basic teaching. I
hope it has been worthwhile.
Do you pray each day? Do you have a prayer
life? If not, what would it take for you to develop a consistent
prayer life? If you already do pray regularly, will you
commit yourself to grow stronger in your praying? Any of
us can develop a meaningful prayer life. It's really not
that complicated. It just takes effort to make that choice
to set aside time each day to pray. Whether it’s early
morning, through the day, or at night, take the time needed
to pray. If we wait until we “have time” it
will probably never happen. We have to “just do it”
- just make that choice to set aside some time to pray.
Talk with God - simply, honestly, regularly - and listen
for God to speak. God will help us, because he wants to
be in communication with us!
As I thought of how to end this series
of sermons, an old song came to mind. It’s a song
about prayer called How Long Has It Been? The words of the
first stanza go like this:
“How long has it been since you talked
with the Lord,
And told Him your hearts hidden secrets?
How long since you prayed? How long since
you stayed
On your knees till the light shone through?
How long has it been since your mind felt
at ease?
How long since your heart knew no burden?
Can you call Him your Friend, How long
has it been
Since you knew that He cared for you?”
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